LOVE

           How many of us know what exactly "Love" means ? Love doesn't means just merely  exchanging gifts , of course thats one way of showing your love for that particular person.. apart from this there is also some other things which matters . Love exist where you accept the person with his/her good and bad habits. And not trying to change that person for the sake of your happiness.

  A real love is something different, pure, full of love ; no matter you are in whatever situation your partner will always be by your side and i believe this one thing makes a relationship stronger . Love should be in such a way where there is no place for bondage , yet  there is feeling of commitment which should come directly from the heart.

 Other name for love is respect . Respecting each others feelings holds an important place in a relationship. That way relationships flourishes with more love and happiness. Also misunderstanding  can happen at some point of time in everybody's life; how do you handle the situation is a real test.

               

 

ALOO MATAR WITH A TOUCH OF BENGALI FLAVOUR.

                          Since my childhood days i have seen my mom cooking tasty dishes and i used to wonder what makes her dish so special, ofcourse mother's love. Apart from that she used one spice which would create a unique flavour in any dish- PANCHPHORON(blend of five different spices). So i thought why not give it a try. And guess what!!! it turned out great.


RECIPE FOR ALOO MATAR: 
Panchphoron- 1 tsp
Tomato puree-2 to 3 tbsp
Hing   - 1/2 tsp
Turmeric powder
Chilli powder
Coriander powder
cumin powder
crushed Ginger- 1 tbsp
Salt to taste
Sugar   - 1/2 tsp
Cream - 1/2 cup
Potato - 1
Peas(matar)-1/2 cup
Coriander leaves
water - 1 cup

Heat the pan, add oil , panchphoron . After spice starts fluttering add Hing , Tomato puree, Ginger ,Salt
, Sugar.... saute well till masala fries well. Then add potato , fry for few mins , followed by peas. add rest of the spice , water and bring to boil. Add cream and cook covered for 10 mins till gravy thickens a bit.
Garnish with coriander leaves.

The place where we dwell in...

       Its been almost 4 years since we moved to chicago. When we first landed here , i still remember that evening...with so many thoughts  in my mind( will i ever belong to this city, make friends, fight with loneliness)  we came to our hotel, unlike india where you can hear out people almost anytime of the day and here it was so calm and quiet... it was indeed a good feeling but at the same time  a feeling of nostalgia gripped me , before i could realise tears welled up in my eyes... i am so so far from my home where i used to feel protected and next moment here i am all set to lead our lives on our own with no advice or guidance.

Years, months, days passed by and each day was a new experience for me with so many ups and downs.But finally at the end of the day everything would fall in place with little effort. Now after 4 years
i really feel chicago has accepted me with all his heart or should i say i feel close here. I do miss my home, family and all festivals , but i guess " to gain something you have to lose some".

And not to mention i love chicago even more in winter when it is covered in a beautiful blanket of snow

which is truly a million dollar view especially during the night , spreading the luminous light from the snow itself. With all these alluring stuffs around me i am really looking forward to spend many more years here in beautiful chicago.

LOST AGAIN....

  Last week , weather was deadly dull, rainy , i was feeling little low, not sure why but may be because of weather itself or problems in life, frustration, or loneliness; any of which never seem to end. sometimes i strongly feel life has come to standstill; god it feels so "awful". Like in a movie there is always  a happy scene after every sad one but our life is full of struggle, pain, detest, arguments, dissension and god knows what else.sometimes i feel that happiness has vanished from our lives .And when we crave for some happy moments, we run for those stupid materialistic stuffs and which in reality doesn't satisfy our cravings.

In this new century of technology, everything seems so mechanical. Now its just a matter of few seconds and your messages reaches your near and dear ones in merely one click. So socialising has been only an occasional affair for all of us. Every one of us need a companion to share happy and bad moments and of course a shoulder to cry, though not always but when 
you strongly feel the urge that " I CANT HANDLE IT ANYMORE".At that point of time, sharing your thoughts with someone may ease your a mind a bit. That way we would have felt so much stress free at that moment of time.

MAA DURGA

In our Hindu religion Maa Durga manifests -"WOMEN POWER", the luminous goddess who has      eight arms,riding a lion, carrying a weapon in one hand and a lotus in other. Maa Durga depicts      fearlessness, power and love . Goddess Durga showed her fierce compassion by killing Mahishasur.      Hence her other name is known to be " MAHISHASURMARDINI".This day of durga's victory      is celebrated in various forms in many parts of india.        It is rightly said in every women there is goddess durga. Thus women is considered to be more        supreme than men in all aspects of life wether it is related to work, family or relationship. She        is the embodiement of power, love , fear, affection, hatred.

THE CONCEPT OF ARRANGE MARRAIGE.....

                       

Unlike love marraige , arrange marraige is little different. We have to pass       through a phase where a complete stranger whom we never met is expected       to be our life partner with all possible adjustments and understanding .       It is more of a complicated situation for a women compared to men. A       women is expected to adjust herself  in all circumstances . In India, culture       of arrange marraige is very much followed than love marraige ; in other       words indians follow this trend more than any other countries.      Arrange marraige is a practice where someone other than the couple makes       the selection of a person to be wed. However it should not be confused       with forced marraige, as in arrange marraige though parents choose a suitable      bride or groom for their children ; it is solely depends on the couples  wether      they consider it as a perfect match for  themselves. once they approve then      rest of the rituals are followed.       The feelings of arrange marraige  couples is truly different , there is a sense       of excitement , fear , passion, and  ofcourse love. It is indeed a truly amazing      experience of how a two complete strangers accept each other with their likes      and dislikes. Thus taking vows in front of holy fire and whole society that no       matter what , they will always  support each other in good an bad times.     At the same time i do believe that "MARRAIGE" wether love or arranged "ARE      ALWAYS MADE IN HEAVEN".

STARTING DAY WITH A CHEERFUL NOTE.

                  As the sun rises spreading its beautiful golden colour
                  all over the universe clearly giving the message that
                  each one of us shall start our day with a cheerful and
                  jovial mood and pass on the beautiful message to
                  others so that world can be a Happy and better place.
                  With this thought i wake up  and start my day with a
                  happy note. 
                   
                
                  GOOD DAY TO ALL OF YOU.... :)